Yes, I have made sacrifices for someone I love. What I did was I broke up with my boyfriend for my mom because she didn’t like him so much. He was a pot head and he had very bad anger issues and my mom was afraid that if we got in a fight when I was around him that he would hurt me. When me and him were going out my mom was very upset with me and wouldn’t talk to me that much. He and I were in love with each other, but family comes before anyone else so that’s why I decided to break up with him. Me and him still talk all the time and were best friends. My mom still doesn’t like him so much till but he has controlled his anger a lot.
I think that you shouldn’t go so far with sacrifices but it a lot depends on who you are sacrificing too. If you are sacrificing to a boyfriend/girlfriend you can sacrifice a lot but you shouldn’t go too far with it because then your relationship could become bad. Also if you’re sacrificing to your family then you should sacrifice more to them because they will always be there for you no matter what especially your parents because they do a lot for us and sacrificed a lot for us too.
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Thursday, June 16, 2011
Everyday I do things to make other people happy even if it something i don't like. My boyfriend does not like the fact that i hand out with my ex with our other friends and all of us including friends go out to dinner once a week. He told me that he does not think it is right that i habd out with my ex. He told me that handing out with him upsets him, but is willing to let me go to dinner because he does not want to control me. He wants me to be happy even if he does not like it. All I want is for him and my self to be happy. I told him that I would no longer go to the dinners every week, but once in a while because I don't want to stop being his friend. He said that was fine but he was still not going to be happy about it.
I finally told him that i would no longer go to dinner. I was still going to talk to him and hang out with him in school. Only cause he is normally around when I am with him. He also likes that idea because there is more than 6 poeple around when we hang out and they are not just my friends they are his too. I still do not think that I should have to stop doing something if it makes ne happy, but i want him to be happy and if that is how i have to do then so be it. I just wont be happy about hearing about the dinners I miss and the fun that I missed out on. I love my boyfriend and I don't want to loose him and I don't want to hurt him. I just want him to be happy.
I finally told him that i would no longer go to dinner. I was still going to talk to him and hang out with him in school. Only cause he is normally around when I am with him. He also likes that idea because there is more than 6 poeple around when we hang out and they are not just my friends they are his too. I still do not think that I should have to stop doing something if it makes ne happy, but i want him to be happy and if that is how i have to do then so be it. I just wont be happy about hearing about the dinners I miss and the fun that I missed out on. I love my boyfriend and I don't want to loose him and I don't want to hurt him. I just want him to be happy.
Sacrifice Erry'thang.
In the book, Of Mice and Men, George sacrifices a great deal in order to care for Lennie. I have not made any big sacrifices for a loved one, but my mom had too sacrifice her college career so that she could raise me cause my father didnt want too. It made life hard for us but I'm glad she did it, because if she hadn't, I might not be as happy as I am today. I appreciate it everyday; I owe her everything. She feels like she had to do it, but she could of just as easily said no like my dad did.
I would give up somethings for a loved one. It's a choice to make a sacrifice, you may not be happy, but you can really help someone. It depends who it was, I would give up alot for my child. But I can honestly say that I wouldn't give up my life for a lover. There are pleanty of things that can be done without sacrifice, such as improvising. But for a child, you need to raise them and give them the attention they need, so sacrifice is a definate.
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I would give up somethings for a loved one. It's a choice to make a sacrifice, you may not be happy, but you can really help someone. It depends who it was, I would give up alot for my child. But I can honestly say that I wouldn't give up my life for a lover. There are pleanty of things that can be done without sacrifice, such as improvising. But for a child, you need to raise them and give them the attention they need, so sacrifice is a definate.
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Sacrifices
For a long time my parents were having a hard time getting my sister through college. Money was getting tight because my dad had been laid off at work because of corporate downsizing, and we were all giving things up to scavenge more money so my sister could stay in school. I had to give up my weekly allowance I got for doing my chores, and I was told to stop driving my car around so much so that we would spend less money on gas. This is actually pretty hard for me because a lot of my friends live really far away and it takes a lot of gas for me to get to their houses, and now I could pretty much only use my car to get to work and back.
I wouldn’t say that this is the biggest sacrifice I have ever had to make for someone I care for, but it is definitely the first one to come to mind because I was pretty pissed that I couldn’t see my friends for a good half a year. I think the farthest I would ever go would be to give mostly everything. If I truly care for that person I would have no problem sacrificing a lot for them, no matter to cost or repercussions. There is no length I wouldn’t go to for a real friend.
I wouldn’t say that this is the biggest sacrifice I have ever had to make for someone I care for, but it is definitely the first one to come to mind because I was pretty pissed that I couldn’t see my friends for a good half a year. I think the farthest I would ever go would be to give mostly everything. If I truly care for that person I would have no problem sacrificing a lot for them, no matter to cost or repercussions. There is no length I wouldn’t go to for a real friend.
Watermelon OG
I remember back in freshman year when I sacrificed going to Six Flags with a friend of mine and instead I went to go spend the day with my lovely grandma in a nursing home. It was nice because I don't see her often, I wish I could see her more. As far as a limit on how far you should go with sacrificing for loved ones, there is none. For family and friends that you love, you could give them the world and then some. In Of Mice & Men I think George is doing what he can for Lennie, even though he's mentally challenged. George cares about Lennie a lot, but George gets aggrevated when he forgets everything. He cares about Lennie though and he knows it's not his fault. My grandma is handicapped but I still love her and would take care of her if I could. There's no limit to how far you can go with loving someone, it's not possible.
My cat.
I sacrificed for my cat. She needed food so I went out of my way to feed her. Because I love my cat. Thats why I did it.
A Sacrifice to make
The only sacrifice that witness that was in my life was when one of aunt was diagnose with breast cancer. The news that she had breast cancer was very devistating to the whole family. My father sacrifice alot of his own money and his own time from his own business to help her. He spent thousands and thousands of dollars to help her on her treatment. She had breast cancer for over a year. All of the family and myself sacrifice alot of stuff to help her. Alot of people sacrifice there love, time.
People shouldn't go far. To sacrifice anything, whether it be love or time, it's limitless. There is no limit that people can sacrifice. The only thing that is limited though is money. Money is limited. People can't spent millions and millions of dollars for sacrificing.
People shouldn't go far. To sacrifice anything, whether it be love or time, it's limitless. There is no limit that people can sacrifice. The only thing that is limited though is money. Money is limited. People can't spent millions and millions of dollars for sacrificing.
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