Everyday I do things to make other people happy even if it something i don't like. My boyfriend does not like the fact that i hand out with my ex with our other friends and all of us including friends go out to dinner once a week. He told me that he does not think it is right that i habd out with my ex. He told me that handing out with him upsets him, but is willing to let me go to dinner because he does not want to control me. He wants me to be happy even if he does not like it. All I want is for him and my self to be happy. I told him that I would no longer go to the dinners every week, but once in a while because I don't want to stop being his friend. He said that was fine but he was still not going to be happy about it.
I finally told him that i would no longer go to dinner. I was still going to talk to him and hang out with him in school. Only cause he is normally around when I am with him. He also likes that idea because there is more than 6 poeple around when we hang out and they are not just my friends they are his too. I still do not think that I should have to stop doing something if it makes ne happy, but i want him to be happy and if that is how i have to do then so be it. I just wont be happy about hearing about the dinners I miss and the fun that I missed out on. I love my boyfriend and I don't want to loose him and I don't want to hurt him. I just want him to be happy.