In life I do assume a pose. And that pose is what has created me. My personality is different when I am at home compared to how I act at school, but doesn’t everyone? For the most part I am a very quiet person, very calm, and understanding. When I am at school I like to stay quiet and focus on my work. When I am with my friends at school I like to have fun, laugh and show affection towards them but not the same way of how we act outside of school.
In school I feel that we have a responsibility to be someone who we truly aren’t deep down inside. For the most part people like to hide their true personality because they are afraid to be their self around others. Everyone wants to fit in. So in order to fit in they become someone who they aren’t.
My personality changes depending on who I am with. If I am with my sister I am talkative and state my feelings strongly. If I disagree with her or mad at her I am not afraid to tell her otherwise. When I am with my mom or dad I am respectful and do what I am obligated to do. I still have responsibilities but I feel safe and relaxed around them. My language changes when I am with my parents compared to when I am with my friends. When I am with my boyfriend I am loving, caring, and will do anything for him. I am calm for the most part and always put him and his feelings before mine. When I am with my girl friends I feel like I can be more outgoing and can express myself differently then when I am with my boyfriend. I wouldn’t sing Taylor Swift and do nails with my boyfriend. So when I am with him I drop the whole girly talk type of subjects. So it is very true that when I am with different people I am a different person.
I feel that I can show my true personality when I am with my sister. I am also at home when I act this way. When I am with her I feel that I am able to talk to her about everything. Even though I am the older sister and she should be the one coming to me for advice it is the other way around with us. I always go to her for everything and feel free to talk to her about anything. She might not always know what to say to me when I am stuck in situations but she’s always there. I am a lot more out going with her I am not afraid to tell her off. This is because she is my other half, we are extremely close and practically twins, just she’s the better half.
I feel that if we were all our self and talked to people how we really wanted to talk to them, and was not afraid to be our selves in front of others then there would most likely be more drama but maybe people might be happier. But no matter what when our surroundings change so do we.
This is a really interesting post i really enjoyed reading this post. I think everybody can relate to this, and i totally agree. Because my personality is totally different at home comparing to the one at school.
ReplyDeleteI think this was a very honest post. I really liked it. and i agree that everybody does change at some point depending on who they are with, because people cant really help it.
ReplyDeleteI liked reading this because I think it's written in kind of a calming tone. I can relate to some of what you said. Mostly to how you act differently at school and home. Whenever I'm home I'm quiet and perfer to be alone, but at school I'm almost the complete opposite!
ReplyDeleteI actually like this post because everything about it is true, people do like to tend to not act like themselves all the time. They might be afraid that people will think of them as weird or whatever. But they'll never know what might happen if they do act like themselves.
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