Decisions

If I had to choose between family, and my husband, I don't think I could pick. I would try not to get into situations that are between my husband and family. I think that the only time I would get involved if it was life or death, or if it was something completly serious, like some one killed someone or if my husband was cheating on me and they had proof. But as far as I am conserned I would try to stay as neutral as possible. If it something that is not so serious, they will get over me not choosing a side, or just not getting involved. I love my family and I will love my husband too, and to me my husband is going to be part of the family. For me now if my brother comes up and says something about him getting in trouble, or something to do with my boyfriend, then I would talk to my boyfriend first because we are honest to each other no matter what the situation. I am most likely not going to believe me brother, unless told other wise, because he has not been honest with me practically for my whole life. But I would only listen to both sides before I even did anything, and if anything happened I would leave it between the two of them and not take it in myself. They are big boys. They can deal with it. I am not going to be dragged into something that really does not have anything to do with me.