Family or Wife

When a man and wife become married, they become one flesh and build a strong bond between each other. Thier souls become intertwined and their spirits are connected. As a Christian I believe that after a woman leaves her home to live with their husband, that it changes their loyalty and that their family's loyalty becomes second place. So I think that you should give more loyalty to your signifigant other, but it does all depend on the situation. Don't get me wrong I am all for my family and my loyalty is pledged to them, but thats untill I begin the new part of my life with my wife. In my book of tips for living, the author explains how the wife is more precious than rubies and that men should cleave to their wifes. It also explains the significance of their great bond and how strong it is. I believe that the bond is really strong and I think that I would be loyal to my wife. The person I would take advice from is my family because they know me the best and my parents have a successful marriage so their advice would be greatly appreciated. My mom also has a lot of wisdom and my dad also has a lot of wisdom. So their advice would be the best. I would probably have more trust for my wife as I said when we would enter the covenant of marriage we would become "One Flesh," and so we would have a huge connection and bond and I would trust my wife's opinions even though my family grew up with me, my wife has entered a covenant and my wife would begin to spend the rest of my life with me, every waking moment.