A significant other deserves loyalty more than family members for the same reason friends do. Family may be important, but at the end of the day, they're still your family. If you are not loyal with a significant other than you will most definitely lose them. Family should be trusted more in this same mindset, as family will never truly turn their back on you.
However, this is not the way you should get advice. Just because they're family, doesn't mean their advice is better. Instead, you should take advice from everyone and see what they have to say and why. A perfect example of this way back when I was deciding whether or not to get back with my ex: I asked friends and family for their advice and the majority told me not to. I ignored their input and went for it, only to find out, a few short months later, that I should've taken their advice into further consideration. Had I better listened to what they had to say, I could've spared both myself and my ex from a very rough fallout. The bottom line is, take advice from anyone willing to give it, and make your choice based on both the input you've been provided, and your own personal thoughts.
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