Hey, Special_k here.
If I ever had to choose who deserves my loyalty more, a family member or a significant other, I would have to choose my family. Although I do trust and care about my girlfriend, if there was ever an instance where I had to be loyal to someone to my grave; I would choose my mom or grandpa in a heartbeat. We argue sometimes but I know they would always have my back, and give me the best advice over anyone. There has been instances like this in the past. I have had to go to my mom with problems that I knew if I told anyone else it would become a news report. It's that family trust that is so much stronger than anything you can build with someone else.
Now if there was an instance involving like drama or a conflict, I would most certainly go to my girly first. Her advice could be more helpful then anything my mom or grandpa could say. Because they're my age they would know how to work with the stress and deal with the problem. Of course I tell things to my significant other that I keep from my mom, nothing major, just things I think she'd be better at helping me with. And if there is ever something no one else needs to know about, I would just tell my dog! Pets can be a good thing to vent to because they can't give you a opinion. So next time confide in your dog, cat, or blue lobster (:
<3 Special_ K
Well Special K, I do agree with your post. I agree even more with your last sentence about confiding with your dog, cat and blue lobster. I agree with that because those are very trustworthy creatures, ANYWAY, I also agree that you can go to your significant other with problems other than your family members because sometimes family members are not as understanding.
ReplyDeleteInteresting story Special_K. I can almost relate to this story because you would choose your mother except I would choose my father instead. I like your story but the only thing I don't like is the blue lobster.
ReplyDeleteI think your post is true, parents are good for some advice, and then there is things that you can't talk about. Pets are also great to talk to because they are good listeners are won't judge. Very good post!
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