If I were in this situation, family or relationship, I wouldn't be able to choose. It mostly depends on the situation. Its a hard decision wether to pick your family or your spouse. The history of your relationships with both sides would also effect my decision. If there was previous incidents that may involve trust or advice that went bad it could determine the choice. If placed in this situation I might pick something completely different than these two sides. By doing this your not siding with them or against them, and therefore aren't picking favorites.
Family should come first. Those are the people who have and will always be there.Yet sometimes they aren't the best people and don't care. I know people who care about me more than some of my family which makes it hard to decide. Although family is first, its not always the right choice. If placed in this situation I know I wouldn't be able to choose.
I completely agree with the first paragraph. I also would not be able to choose between spouse and family. I also agree with your second paragraph because, you are right family does come first. It all depends on how good you know your spouse.
ReplyDeleteI agree your first paragraph. Even though i never had a relationship, but I can really tell on the situation that it's hard to choose who to trust. I agree that family should come first. No matter what.
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